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Redirecting Your Need for Love and Acceptance: Finding True Healing in Jesus
In today’s world, many women find themselves in toxic relationships, often with narcissistic partners who use their vulnerabilities as a...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Sep 13, 20243 min read


Breaking the Chains: Embracing Your True Identity Beyond the Shadows of Narcissistic Abuse
In the world we live in, there are numerous forms of oppression and abuse. Among these, the relationship between a narcissist and their...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Sep 13, 20243 min read


Overcoming Fear Through Faith: Finding Strength in God's Promises
Fear is one of the most paralyzing emotions we can experience. Its grip can be so tight that it affects every aspect of our lives,...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Sep 9, 20243 min read


Breaking Free from the Devil's Deception: Embracing Your True Worth as a Royal Daughter of God
In the midst of an abusive relationship with a narcissist, it can feel as though you are trapped in a never-ending nightmare. The cycle...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Sep 2, 20244 min read


Finding Hope and Healing: Understanding Depression in Abusive Relationships with Narcissists
If you find yourself entangled in an abusive relationship with a narcissist, you might be struggling with feelings of despair, confusion,...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Sep 2, 20243 min read


Fighting Through
Sisss.. this journey has been one that I haven't been able to predict at all! Some days are amazing and the tears that I cry are joyful...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Jun 19, 20243 min read


Moving Forward
Why does it seem like the hardest thing to do in life is to move forward. I sit and think about all of the motivational coaches in the...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
May 30, 20243 min read


Hard to do....
Sometimes it can be hard to address something that has always been around. When you have normalized pain and neglect, it can be difficult...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
May 30, 20243 min read


SHEER AMAZEMENT
Hey Siss! Welcome back to my blog. Today I am in sheer amazement of just how faithful our Heavenly Father is. I think at times we think...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
May 1, 20244 min read


OVERWHELMED!
Ok Sis, so today's blog is going to be a bit more direct. Satan resides in STRESS. The human body wasn't designed by our Heavenly Father...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Mar 18, 20243 min read


NO!
The hardest thing for a person who has been codependent all of their lives to do is to say NO! For me I had grown so accustomed of being...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Jan 17, 20242 min read


Feeling Unsure...
Hey Siss.. so if you are new here, this blog is for sisters like me who found themselves in abusive relationships with narcissists. In...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Nov 29, 20233 min read


BETRAYAL...
I realize that I never processed anything before The Holy Spirit began to teach me about my experiences in this life through His lenses....
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Nov 29, 20233 min read


Waking Up
I know that sometimes one of the things that we look forward to the most is getting some rest! Our lives are so busy, and it seems like...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Oct 11, 20233 min read


When DARKNESS falls...
We have to understand that there is a war between darkness and light. When you begin to read your bible, you will learn that the LIGHT...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Jul 28, 20233 min read


Trapped...
In the beginning I had heard of countless stories of how his exes mistreated him as he tearfully shared his past of heartbreaks and I...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Jul 7, 20234 min read


"OFF" DAYS... And How To Push THROUGH!
So Sis, I must be completely honest with you. Every day will not be sunshine and rainbows. I'm sure you didn't really need me to tell you...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Jun 22, 20234 min read


Date from Hell!
Sis, I know that if you are reading this blog, it is because we have something in common. We both believed the beautiful liar sent to...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
Jun 7, 20233 min read


I Don't Want to Leave Him Because I Will Be Alone..
Hey Sis. If I am completely honest with you, I thought this very thing throughout my time in that abusive relationship. He would often do...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
May 22, 20235 min read


Narcs & "The Golden Rule"
Hey Sis.. I have a question for you. I want you to be completely honest. This is going to help you I promise. How do I know ? Well,...
Sis Shantel DOTMHGOI
May 23, 20225 min read
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